5 essential oils to help keep you feeling protected and healthy this season + Black Friday News!

In this blog post, we discuss the importance of staying healthy during the fall season. As busy individuals, taking care of ourselves often falls to the bottom of our to-do list. However, it is crucial to prioritize our health in order to continue caring for our loved ones. One simple way to boost immunity and protect ourselves is by incorporating essential oils into our daily routine. Young Living offers a selection of oils, including Clove, Eucalyptus, Laurel, Lemon, and Ravintsara, that have antimicrobial, antiviral, and antibacterial properties to support our immune and respiratory systems. These oils can be used through diffusing, incorporating them into massage oils, or using personal inhalers. Taking the time to integrate these oils into our lives can make a significant difference in our overall wellness.

Additionally, Young Living is having a Black Friday sale starting tomorrow, offering discounts on various products such as oils, supplements, and pain cream. Many of the oils mentioned above will be included in this sale, making them great gifts for those who value their health. Stock up on your essential oils and other staples during this sale, as it runs from November 14th to November 18th, while supplies last. Don't miss out on this opportunity to prioritize your well-being and enjoy the shopping experience!

We interrupt regular programing to bring you this important information....

Hello Beautiful Oily Family!!!
We have some super exciting news!! 
Starting tomorrow (or TODAY if you are reading this on Saturday) 
you can shop the   
The Young Living Holiday Catalog!

The Young Living holiday catalog never disappoints and this year is no different!

We have NEW products being released along with crowd favorites that come around only this time of year, like our favorite oil blend Christmas Spirit! 

I begin diffusing this blend the end of October and by mid November I am so excited for the Winter Holidays! If you really know me, you know that Winter is not my favorite Season, but this essential oil blend banishes my Winter Blues! You can also grab it in a 3 pack hand soap. Perfect for entertaining at the Holidays!

And if you LOVE the scented candles or wax melts that contain synthetic fragrances that release volatile organic compounds or VOC's during combustion (VOC's have been associated with allergies and asthma, eye irritation and sneezing) you should try the Simplified by Jacob + Kait Winter Collection

The Winter Collection is three limited-time scents for the most wonderful time of the year! 
Candy Cane makes your home smell like a magical, minty wonderland 
Winter Spa Turns your space into a relaxing and revitalizing retreat 
Pink Champagne has a bright, fruity, effervescent aroma inspired by a celebratory toast with family and friends

We have a lot of new products being released Saturday Morning, 
but these next two will for sure be in my cart tomorrow! 
Check this out!

Inspired by ancient Ayurveda traditions, our Golden Turmeric Chai Rose drink goes beyond a cozy treat! This golden powder provides benefits such as supporting healthy digestion, supporting immune response, and bolstering your body's natural response to inflammation! After a busy day of holiday planning and partying, this heartwarming powdered blend is the ultimate way to relax and recharge.


  • Supports the body’s natural response to inflammation, immune response, joint health, mobility, and recovery after physical exertion
  • Contains a unique form of turmeric extract that is 24 times more bioavailable than 1,500 mg of standard turmeric extract
  • Delivers as much curcuminoids in just 300 mg as 1,922 mg of standard turmeric extract
  • Contains prebiotics to support healthy digestion as well as the gut-brain axis
And this! I am so excited for this!!

Your beauty uplifted. Ingredients straight from nature, backed by science. 

Clinically shown to:
  • Significantly increase skin hydration instantly**
  • Significantly decrease horizontal neck folds after four weeks*
  • Result in visibly firmer and suppler skin on arms after eight weeks*
  • Result in firmer-looking skin on arms and neck after eight weeks*
  • Significantly improve skin smoothness on neck after eight weeks*
  • Creating 
    • Confidence in your skin
    • Confidence in nature
    • Confidence in your choices
*Third-party clinical study of 30 participants between the ages of 50–75, who used Sandalwood Boswellia Firming Cream for a period of 56 consecutive days between April 11 and July 20, 2023. Results obtained using Evalux Bench® and Cutometer® instrumentation.  **In-house testing with hydration probe.

All of this PLUS SO MUCH MORE!! Here are the details.....

Products are live Saturday, October 7 and FREE SHIPPING is available starting Saturday at 9am MT until Sunday, October 8 at 11:59pm on "One Time" orders of 200pv or more! 
Start your Holiday shopping early! 

Did I mention the portable diffuser charging pad?!? put your diffuser anywhere! No need for a plug near by!

5 hours of continuous diffusion! 
Remove those toxic air fresheners and put your diffuser anywhere!

Young Living makes it so easy for us to live healthier lifestyles at the click of a button!
Remember, it is easier to stay well, than to get well!

Please reach out if you have any questions. I will be at my desk shopping too! 
I can't wait to hear what you are excited for and what you are purchasing for yourself and for gift giving!

Your friends in the Oiler Room <#

Dry skin? Here are 5 Best Carrier Oils for Fall Skin Care

As the seasons change, our skin may become dry, sensitive, and in need of nourishment. One of the best ways to address this is by incorporating carrier oils into our daily skincare routine. Carrier oils, also known as vegetable oils or fixed oils, are derived from nuts and seeds and contain essential fatty acids, vitamins, minerals, and other nutrients that help keep our skin hydrated and resilient. 

There are three effective ways to use these carrier oils for skincare. You can create a body oil by simply applying the oil all over your body, adding essential oils like sage, pine, and lemongrass for skin tightening. A face oil can even out your skin tone, balance combination skin, and promote skin regeneration. You can try the Sacred Seven blend, which includes rosehip seed oil, frankincense, sacred frankincense, geranium, sandalwood, myrrh, jasmine, ylang-ylang, and elemi for revitalizing and rejuvenating the skin. Lastly, a scalp oil using lavender, cedarwood, rosemary, or peppermint can balance the scalp and promote healthy hair.

Take care of your skin this fall with these nourishing carrier oils and essential oils from Young Living for a healthy and vibrant complexion.

Two seasonal recipes plus the final 2 days of 30 Days to Toxic Free Living!

Hi Friends!

Spring/Summer season is upon us where we spend more time outdoors. I have been spending plenty of time outside which means I need my Allergy Trio and Natural Weed Killer. I figure since they are in my routine, I thought I'd share, so here goes!


This homemade weed killer recipe is so powerful that you won’t want to spray it anywhere near your garden. Yes, it will kill weeds, but it will also eliminate any other plant it touches! It is useful because the ingredients work together to break surface tension so that the active ingredient can get the job done.

  • 1 ¾ Cups White Vinegar
  • ¼ Cup Liquid Castile Soap
  • 3 Drops Wintergreen Essential Oil
  • 3 Drops Clove Essential Oil
  • 3 Drops Cinnamon Essential Oil
  • 3 Drops Orange Essential Oil
Combine all essential oils and the soap in a spray bottle and mix. Pour in the vinegar, replace lid, and shake to combine. Spray on any pesky weeds or unwanted plants, but avoid plants you want to keep living. This natural weed killer recipe may be best for sidewalks and driveways.

allergy trio

This was the blend that got me off Claritin. My allergy to the Cottonwood tree was incredible! Cottonwoods are beautiful, and when the cotton flies it looks like it is snowing in our neighborhood, but that also meant that I couldn't go outside or have the windows open unless I took Claritin. I used to take a lot throughout the day, which caused me to need Costco sized bottles. So expensive! Did you know you are not supposed to drink alcohol when taking Claritin or like medications? There are also side effects like dry mouth, mild stomach upset, trouble sleeping, dizziness, headache, nervousness, and it can raise your blood pressure. Let me tell you, when I tried the Allergy Trio for the first time, I was skeptical, but it works phenomenally!

In a 00 Veggie Capsule, add two drops of Lemon essential oil, Lavender essential oil and Peppermint essential oil. You can add a little V6 carrier oil to each capsule. I actually make these ahead of time and have them in my freezer ready to go when I need them. Many men I know like to make a roller bottle with the ingredients and apply to their mustache. Just be careful with this method, as Lemon essential oil is photosensitive, which means if you go in the sun after applying to your skin, you could get a sun burn on the application area. I hope you try at least one of those recipes. If you do, please let us know what you think. 

We are down to the final two ways we are sharing with you about how to remove toxicity from your life. This list would not be complete without touching on relationships. So here we go!

29- Toxic Relationships

This is one that we don’t always think of when we think of the toxicity in our life. But our emotional health is so closely tied to our physical one. There is a difference between not getting along in the moment with someone (relationships have ebbs and flows) and having someone that is TOXIC. Studies show that you become most like the five people that you spend the most time with. Think about who you want to be and then consider the attributes and qualities of those top five people. Should there be some re-arranging? Here are 10 examples when considering if someone is toxic for you

  1. You feel emotionally exhausted after an encounter with them
  2. There is a lack of trust
  3. There is a hostile communication style
  4. Controlling behaviors
  5. Frequent lying
  6. All take and no give
  7. You find yourself making excuses for their behavior
  8. They are easily jealous and punish you for your feelings
  9. They give backhanded compliments
  10. They are self-absorbed and don't consider your feelings

Make sure your life is surrounded by people who love and support you!

30- Personal Care Products

Menstrual CupI know, I know....This is a super controversial subject, but I ask that if you are a person who has a period, please think about this option of swapping tampons for a menstrual cup. I think it is the best solution to your monthly visitor. It is non-toxic and budget-friendly (imagine NEVER buying tampons again). It also decreases your flow and can help with bloating and cramps. The biggest thing I want to highlight is the TOXIC CHEMICALS in tampons and pads! Tampons contain bleached rayon–YES, BLEACH! Also, tiny bits of cotton can cause small cuts in your vaginal walls–a perfect breeding ground for bacteria. 

Nail Polish: I don't want to start a rant about the toxic chemicals that enter our bloodstreams through the skin and nails. Needless to say, today is the day to try a nontoxic nail polish! You will be surprised at the wearability and colors available! Check out all the beautiful colors! Please note, there are many non toxic nail polishes on the market. Take some time and do a little research. Your body will thank you!

If you read the complete series of emails, 30 days to Toxic Free Living, Congratulations! You are better educated than before with a little extra knowledge on what to avoid! To thank you for following along, I would like to offer you a chance to win this beautifully packaged kit of Lavender, Peppermint and Tea Tree essential oils, all in 10ml bottles!  And you will only need a bottle of Lemon Essential Oil to make the Allergy Trio! YAY!

Just reply to this email or text stating, "you did it!" and you will be entered to win! It's that simple! Good Luck!

As always, we thank you for allowing us to be on this healthier journey with you! If there is ever anything you'd like to see in these emails, drop us a line and tell us what that is! We love suggestions from our community! 

Remember, your health is your wealth! 

That's all for now and thank you so much for your support!

Your Friends in the Oiler Room!

Things I Learned in Africa and 30 Days to Toxin Free Living! Days 22-28

Hi Friends!

It's been a minute since this email should have hit your inbox, and for that I am sorry. Many of you know I was on vacation in Africa and while I was there, I really believed I would send you the next email in the series while on vacation. I did bring my laptop, but guess what?!?! Yep, you guessed it...I never opened it. 

That being said, I find this a perfect time to share with you about the Maasai Tribe that lives in Tanzania, Kenya and Uganda and how they still, to this day, use plants and herbs for healing. Super cool, right?!?

This is me, my husband and Dr. Moinget Ole Coney. He is one of the 8 Maasai Chiefs of the more than 1 million Maasai people living in Tanzania, Kenya and Uganda. He is also one of only three Maasai to have ever earned a medical degree. He is incredibly knowledgeable and shared with us, the many plants that are found locally and used to TREAT and HEAL various medical issues like Malaria, stomach-upset, fever, and more

The various species of acacia trees (Pictured above with a zebra! So cool) that are of common association with the vast plains of East Africa are used by the Maasai to treat a number of ailments. Acacia Nilotica, sometimes called the Gum Arabic Tree, or the Egyptian Thorn tree, is sometimes used to aid stomach upset, diarrhea, and help to increase appetite, but way of distillation via boiling. The bark of the Acacia Mellifera, referred to sometimes as Blackthorn, is used to reduce nausea and aid indigestion, also via a distillation. This knowledge is passed down from generation to generation so children learn distillation early. As cool as this is to me, I am grateful that all we need to do is open a bottle of Digize and have the same effect! Naturally easy!

There is also a toothbrush tree, or Salvadora Persica. It is a low growing evergreen shrub or sometimes a small tree that grows in dry bushland and wooded grasslands. The leaves can be eaten as a salad or also used as traditional medicine for coughs, asthma, rheumatism and other diseases. Flowers are used as a mild laxative and the fruit, although small, can be eaten fresh or dry. A decoction of the roots is taken as an antidote for gonorrhea, spleen pain and stomach aches while latex from the bark is used to treat skin sores. 

Our guide told us that the juice you get after boiling the roots is also a good remedy for ‘cleaning your body’. He advised us if we ever take it we should sleep with only a blanket on because ‘everything comes out’!

The stem is what makes this tree famous, yielding the chewing sticks that contain an antibiotic that keeps your mouth clean and also prevents toothaches. It was also found to contain active compounds which reduce decay, gum disease and plaque. Our guide said it also keeps your teeth white as the snow on Kilimanjaro.

How good it is to see other people and countries, using what Mother Nature intended. When I got home, I started looking up medical studies and found this one from Pub Med, The National Library of Medicine and found many, but thought this one was interesting and there are many others at the bottom of the page, if you want to search around for yourself. Pubmed is one of my favorite go to sites for research.

I hope you enjoyed that little tidbit of information. Our trip to Africa was life changing. I am sure you will hear more about it in the future. If you ever have the opportunity to go, I highly advise it. It's incredible!

OK so let's get back to our 30 day change over to a more healthier lifestyle with the best natural products on the market that are EASY to use and you don't have to grow the plants yourself! 

Here we go.......

22- Baby Products

Wipes, Diaper Rash creams, Baby wash and baby lotion are all commercially marketed and packaged to be “gentle,” “nourishing,” “natural,” and “organic.”  Sadly, so many of the products contain artificial fragrance, parabens, and other toxic chemicals. Thankfully, many companies have removed their parabens, sulfates, and artificial dyes from their lotions and soaps. Most announce this right on the front of their bottle. The biggest problem now in baby products is the synthetic fragrance. Synthetic fragrance – this can be over 3000 different chemicals and companies are not required by law to label what their fragrance is made up of. It’s their “trade secret.” Nor does the FDA require any testing of these chemicals or monitoring of their health effects. The only label on the product will say fragrance, perfume, or parfum. Synthetic fragrance is linked to allergies, skin irritation, eczema and can be toxic to various organs in the body.
Remember you can always scan the product on the Think Dirty App and it will tell you if it’s a synthetic fragrance.
Young Living’s plant-based Seedlings line is formulated specially for our little ones. There are diaper rash ointments, lotions, wipes, shampoo, and baby oil that are gentle on both the baby’s skin and their developing systems. All products in the seedlings line are 100% naturally derived ingredients and 100% pure therapeutic grade essential oils. 

23- Hair Products

The truth is that a plethora of commercial brands use ingredients that make your hair glow, but which also damage it in the long-term, stripping it of vital proteins and moisture. Let’s take a look at some of the worst harmful chemicals you need to avoid. 
  • Coal Tar. Yes, seriously. Coal. Tar. Coal tar is found in numerous anti-dandruff shampoos, as well as dry skin treatments. Naturally, companies don’t list it on their packaging as “COAL TAR”, but instead they list it as a color + number. 
  • Lead is another known carcinogen that can cause cancer, and yet some hair care companies continue to use it in their products. You can find it in hair dye, as well as lipstick.  
  • Sodium lauryl sulfate comes under various names, including laureth sulfate and ammonium laurel sulfate. For this simple reason, it isn’t always easy to detect. It’s as though the hair care companies are deliberately trying to disguise it! You will find SLS in cleansing agents and industrial detergents, such as garage floor cleaners, but for one reason or another you may also find it in some of the world’s leading shampoos!!! 
  • Isopropyl alcohol is found in numerous hair gels and hairsprays because it is able to hold together a hairstyle’s look. But it also risks snapping your tresses right off. So each time you apply a hair gel, you’re giving this nasty chemical the opportunity to snap away like a pair of barber’s scissors
Who wants an all natural DIY Dry Shampoo Recipe?? Did you know that excess use of dry shampoos that contain alcohol can lead to long-term hair and scalp damage. When dry shampoo is used too often, it can cause dandruff, dryness and blocked pores. No good. We have this great alternative for you!
Do you find your hair feels dry and lacks lustre after blow-drying? Are your curls not lasting as long as they used to? One of the main reasons why this would happen is simple: your hair is most likely damaged. To prevent this from happening, it’s so important to use heat protectant spray on your hair before applying heat. And the essential oils will support your hair!! 

What you'll need:

Chose essential oils that are beneficial for hair growth. I like Lavender and Clary Sage. These oils are great for hair growth and estrogen balance in the membrane tissue around the hair follicle. They also serve to balance testosterone levels and to prevent the thickening of the tissue around the follicle that results in hair loss.

  1. Add all the ingredients to a spray bottle. 
  2. Secure the spray nozzle and shake well to combine all ingredients. 
  3. Shake before each use
  4. Spray on damp hair before blow-drying. You can also mist hair lightly a second time before heat styling

    24- perfume 

Fragrances are highly toxic. Fragrances commonly contain Phthalates, which are chemicals that help the scents last longer. Health risks for Phthalates are startling and include Cancer, Human Reproductive and developmental Toxicity, Endocrine Disruption, Birth Defects & Respiratory problems.  Here is our answer to toxic fragrances...Make your own perfume! Here are a few examples to get you started! 

Cottage garden: geranium, lavender
Flawless: geranium, patchouli, frankincense
Peachy: orange, valor, cedarwood 
Angelic: white angelica, frankincense

25- Flame Retardants 

I met a woman at a play date and we started talking. She had recently written an article about toxic things in our home. I asked her what the the number one thing was and she said flame retardants in your mattress or mattress pad (remember when they made flame-retardant pajamas) Flame retardants use polybrominated diphenyl ethers, or PBDEsfor short. Two forms of PBDEs were phased out of use in manufacturing in the United States in 2004 because of related health threats, but the products containing them linger on. Studies have linked PBDEs to learning and memory problems and other health issues. Good idea to check your mattress label! And check before you purchase a mattress cover. I found a non-toxic mattress protector when Orae switched to his big-boy bed

26- Artificially Sweetened Drinks

We seem to have an over-abundance of sugary and artificially sweetened drink options available. We all know that water is really the best option for our bodies.. but let’s face it, sometimes you want something more. Especially something caffeinated to help get through the afternoons or wake you up in the morning. I probably don’t need to go into the countless reasons why artificially sweetened drinks (and their overly sugary counterparts) aren’t good for you. We all know it! I think many continue to drink them because they don’t have a good substitute. 
Water is ALWAYS best!!! I do like to drink a probiotic drink when I want to reach for a sweet drink or something “fun”! Or a Ningxia below…
Young Living Option to Support Immune System and have something sweet- Ningxia Red and Ningxia ZYNG. Yes, Ningxia samples come in your Young Living Starter Kit! That is usually NOT the reason why most people buy the starter kit. But maybe it should be! Did you know how Ningxia was created? Gary Young found a small city in China where the people were living full and healthy lives WELL INTO THEIR hundreds! He knew that there must be some secret, so he traveled there and discovered that a big staple of their diets was the Wolfberry, which grew there, plentifully. He took some wolfberries back and studied them and discovered that they are crazy high in anti-oxidants and brain-nourishing nutrients, (among other things). Ningxia Red has become a staple in our home. I love to mix 2 ounces with ice and a sparkling water in the afternoon for a pick me up! Orae loves it too!

27- Hand Soap

Think about how often you and your loved ones wash your hands in a day. I have counted for our family, and I figure that it is at least 25 uses! Hand soap is something to SERIOUSLY consider when focusing on a nontoxic lifestyle. 
DIY Hand Soap
  • 15-20 drops total Favorite Combo of Oils (Rosemary and Lemon, Lavender, Theives and Orange.. endless options)
  • 2-3 tbs Castile Soap
  • 1-2 tsp Vitamin E Oil
  • Distilled Water to the top. 
Young Living- Thieves Foaming Hand Soap (Item Number 3674). We love to buy this as the big REFILL (Item Number 3594) and use our cute foaming jar dispensers. 

28- Makeup Remover or wipe

It is SO important to remove your makeup DAILY. Makeup Wipes are convenient and cut down on laundry (who doesn’t love that), but I have found that the majority are toxic and full of fragrance (not to mention wasteful). I opt to buy dark colored washcloths and jojoba oil to remove your makeup. Jojoba oil doesn’t clog pores and is really effective in removing mascara! 

DIY Makeup Remover Wipes
  • 1/2 tsp. Witch Hazel
  • 1 tsp. Jojoba Oil
  • 1/4 tsp. Vitamin E oil
  • Cotton rounds
  • Distilled water
  • Mason Jar with lid
  • 5 drops Frankincense Essential Oils
  • 5 drops Tea Tree Essential Oil
  • 5 drops Lavender Essential Oil
  • 5 drops Geranium Essential Oil
  • 1 Tbs. Castile Soap Unscented
Add Witch hazel, jojoba oil, vitamin E, Castile soap, and essential oils into the mason jar. Then add distilled water until the jar is 3/4 of the way full. Screw on mason jar lid and shake till combined…not too aggressive or too much, you don’t want the mixture too sudsy. Add cotton rounds by a small handful at a time. You want to do this gradually to avoid overflow and allow the cotton to absorb the liquid. Really pack those cotton rounds in there.

And just like that you made your own facial cleansing wipes! I use this cleanser at night as a makeup remover before bed. It’s up to you if you want to rinse it off, I don’t. I simply pat dry with a clean soft towel

Alright! There you have it! 7 more days and 7 more ways to remove toxins from your home. I sincerely hope you enjoyed this email, as I enjoyed writing it and sharing what I learned from the Maasai Tribe. 
The one thing that stuck with me, and I have said it before, but hearing natural remedies from the tribe has made a larger impact on me. Every time I look at this picture I am reminded of what they live by, and that is, "Your health is your wealth."

Please feel free to reach out to me if you have any questions about Young Living, Africa, or if you just want to chat. I am only an email or text away!

In good health,
Jess and Your Friends In the Oiler Room

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